
Ben Gordon
Managing Partner & Founder
Vaquero Private Wealth
"Built Vaquero Private Wealth on a single conviction: that ultra-high-net-worth families deserve an advisor whose only obligation is to them."
ben.gordon@vaquerowealth.comBiography
Ben Gordon founded Vaquero Private Wealth on a conviction that the families he had spent two decades serving deserved something the wirehouse model could never deliver: an advisor whose only obligation was to them.
Before launching Vaquero, Ben spent more than 20 years at Merrill Lynch, ultimately serving as a Senior Vice President and Private Wealth Advisor within the firm's Private Banking and Investment Group — the division reserved for the firm's most complex, highest-net-worth client relationships. It was an elite platform with extraordinary resources. But it was also a platform with structural conflicts — proprietary products, institutional priorities, and layers of bureaucracy that too often stood between a great advisor and the right answer for a client.
Ben left to build something better.
At Vaquero, he works directly with ultra-high-net-worth entrepreneurs, executives, and multi-generational families to anticipate and address the full range of financial priorities that accompany significant wealth. His approach is defined by two qualities that rarely coexist: deep technical expertise and genuine responsiveness. He is as comfortable structuring a private equity co-investment as he is coordinating a complex trust and estate plan — and he understands that the most valuable thing an advisor can offer is the ability to connect the dots across every dimension of a family's financial life.
Ben brings extensive knowledge of alternative investments, including private equity, private credit, derivatives, and other institutional investment strategies. He has spent his career building relationships with sponsors, operators, and fund managers — and he uses that network to source opportunities, conduct due diligence, and negotiate terms that meaningfully benefit his clients.
"The most valuable thing an advisor can offer is the ability to connect the dots across every dimension of a family's financial life."
Professional Credentials
Credentials &
Education
Designations & Education
Certified Investment Management Analyst® (CIMA®)
Investments & Wealth Institute
Aresty Institute of Executive Education
The Wharton School, University of Pennsylvania
Bachelor of Science, Cum Laude
Texas Christian University
Career Background
Former Senior Vice President & Private Wealth Advisor
Merrill Lynch Private Banking and Investment Group
Founder & Managing Partner
Vaquero Private Wealth
The CIMA® designation is the peak international certification for investment consultants and wealth management professionals advising affluent and institutional clients.
Expertise
Areas of
Expertise
Alternative investments — private equity, private credit, derivatives, and institutional strategies
Banking and lending solutions for complex wealth structures
Trust and estate planning
Concentrated and restricted stock strategies
Business and succession planning
Philanthropy and charitable giving strategies
Multi-generational family wealth coordination
Private deal sourcing and negotiation
The Founding
Why Vaquero
Exists
After two decades inside one of the world's largest financial institutions, Ben understood both the strengths and the limitations of the wirehouse model. The resources were substantial — but so were the conflicts. Proprietary products, revenue-sharing arrangements, and institutional priorities created friction between what was best for the firm and what was best for the client.
Vaquero Private Wealth was built to eliminate that friction entirely. As an independent, fiduciary firm, Vaquero has no proprietary products, no revenue-sharing relationships, and no institutional agenda. Every recommendation is made solely in the client's interest — full stop.
Ben designed the firm to operate the way a private family office would: deeply integrated, highly responsive, and completely aligned with the families it serves.
No Proprietary Products
Every recommendation is conflict-free
No Revenue Sharing
Zero third-party incentives
Fiduciary Standard
Legally obligated to act in your interest
Community
Community
Involvement
Ben's commitment to Dallas and beyond is reflected in a broad range of leadership roles. These commitments reflect both the breadth of his interests and a belief that wealth carries an obligation to the communities it touches.
Dallas Symphony Board
Dallas Lighthouse for the Blind
Dallas Performing Arts Finance Committee
Dallas Safari Club
Coastal Conservation Association
St. John’s Lower School Investment Committee
Life Outside Work
Personal
Ben lives in University Park, Texas, with his wife Risa, their five children — Gracie, Finley, Fisher, Dylan, and Maggie — and two dogs, June and Sugar. When he's not working with families, he's usually outdoors — in Telluride, on the water, or cheering on his dearly beloved TCU Horned Frogs.
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Work with Ben
Whether you're navigating the complexity of significant wealth for the first time or looking for an advisor who manages your assets the way a family office would — Ben welcomes the conversation.
Form ADV Part 2B — Brochure Supplement for Ben Gordon is available through the SEC's Investment Adviser Public Disclosure (IAPD) system.
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